I’ve been hearing a lot lately about being yourself. And the more I think about it, the more it is really true. You won’t win points or make friends by being fake or trying to be someone you’re not. I prefer to be thoughtful by sending relevant links or emails when necessary rather than a ‘hi, just updating you to let you know I’m still looking,’ or showing up at events where I don’t care about the people or the topic and would much rather be at home reading a book. Besides, no one wants duplicates of the same person in the business. So I stick to what I know best – being thoughtful, considerate, asking genuine questions and taking an interest in the person’s work and background. Your true personality will show and people notice that when you’re genuinely you.

They are finally getting the hint that people are quitting the process out of frustration. Now when you bail they ask you to tell them why. Believe me, I did.
Someone should publish a list of all employers who use this crapware and then we can all boycott them.